Five Day Focus: Patience Day 4: Patience Equips Us for the Ministry of Parenting


Five Day Focus: Patience Day 4: Patience Equips Us for the Ministry of Parenting

Scripture:
2 Corinthians 6:1-10
1We then, as workers together with Him also plead with you not to receive the grace of God in vain. For He says:
“In an acceptable time I have heard you,
And in the day of salvation I have helped you.”[a]
Behold, now is the accepted time; behold, now is the day of salvation.
We give no offense in anything, that our ministry may not be blamed. But in all things we commend ourselves as ministers of God: in much patience, in tribulations, in needs, in distresses, in stripes, in imprisonments, in tumults, in labors, in sleeplessness, in fastings; by purity, by knowledge, by longsuffering, by kindness, by the Holy Spirit, by sincere love, by the word of truth, by the power of God, by the armor of righteousness on the right hand and on the left, by honor and dishonor, by evil report and good report; as deceivers, and yet true; as unknown, and yet well known; as dying, and behold we live; as chastened, and yet not killed; 10 as sorrowful, yet always rejoicing; as poor, yet making many rich; as having nothing, and yet possessing all things.

Colossians 1:9-12
For this reason we also, since the day we heard it, do not cease to pray for you, and to ask that you may be filled with the knowledge of His will in all wisdom and spiritual understanding; 10 that you may walk worthy of the Lord, fully pleasing Him, being fruitful in every good work and increasing in the knowledge of God; 11 strengthened with all might, according to His glorious power, for all patience and longsuffering with joy; 12 giving thanks to the Father who has qualified us to be partakers of the inheritance of the saints in the light.

2 Timothy 2:24
And the Lord's servant must not be quarrelsome but kind to everyone, able to teach, patiently enduring evil,

2 Corinthians 12:10
For the sake of Christ, then, I am content with weaknesses, insults, hardships, persecutions, and calamities. For when I am weak, then I am strong.


Devotional:
I want to be in ministry. I want to be a constant encouragement, I want to work to serve the Lord by serving others. It would be my dream to spend all my time studying the Word, writing, speaking, writing music, singing and creating Scripture art. Somehow, though, I got this idea in my head that ministry had to look just that way. I think I thought that when I entered into motherhood, I would gently guide my children in their way, and of course pour into them, while still doing all the other things I want to do. I just didn’t realize that in order to be the kind of mother that I want to be—that I believe God called me to be—all my other desires and goals would be so completely secondary.

Working to serve my family has become a very important focus for me in the recent months. I think that taking the time to focus in on this has been the impetus for this patience devotional. Having very little time to work on my own pursuits or even having time to clip my own fingernails has bred a frustration in me that can at times surface as impatience or shortness. I didn’t realize that I had this problem until God showed me that I needed to address these behaviors.

I need to be equipped with patience to minister…..to my family. Perhaps little by little I will be able to focus time and energy on the other things that I love to do, to encourage others as well. But for now, cooking, cleaning, laundry and nurture are my ministry. I choose to embrace that, and will continue to pray that God will open time and space and energy for the other as He wills.

I do believe that what we do as moms and dads is a ministry, and that our ministry to our family is core and central to what God’s calling us to. I pray for each of us that He would instill a great desire to serve from love, and that as we do our patience will increase and equip us for that ministry.

Prayer:
Lord, I pray that You will equip me with patience today. If I am harboring any resentment toward my family, I ask that You would remove it and heal the wound. I ask that You would also give me a great joy and desire to serve them. Show me how best to do that. Help me not to live in a world of idealism or perfectionism. Instead, help me to be realistic and joyful.

Intercession:
If you want to keep track of your prayers for your children, open your journal and pray over the list, giving God glory for His work. I have been doing this to help me to remain focused on God’s hand in our lives, but it isn’t necessary for a good prayer life! Lift up needs of the day, and spend time listening for God to move on your heart for each child.


Lord, I thank You that You are the King of our hearts. I bless You today, and give You Your rightful place on the throne in our home.  In Jesus’ Name I pray these things, amen. 

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