Only Love

Tuesday, June 6, 2017

Only Love

Scripture:
Matthew 22:37-40
37 Jesus said to him, “‘You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart, with all your soul, and with all your mind.’ 38 This is the first and great commandment. 39 And the second is like it: ‘You shall love your neighbor as yourself.’ 40 On these two commandments hang all the Law and the Prophets.”

1 John 5:2
By this we know that we love the children of God, when we love God and obey his commandments. For this is the love of God, that we keep his commandments.

Hebrews 10:16-17
“This is the covenant that I will make with them after those days, declares the Lord: I will put my laws on their hearts, and write them on their minds,” then he adds, “I will remember their sins and their lawless deeds no more.”

Matthew 7:12
So whatever you wish that others would do to you, do also to them, for this is the Law and the Prophets.

1 John 4:7-11, 19-21
Beloved, let us love one another, for love is from God, and whoever loves has been born of God and knows God. Anyone who does not love does not know God, because God is love. In this the love of God was made manifest among us, that God sent his only Son into the world, so that we might live through him. In this is love, not that we have loved God but that he loved us and sent his Son to be the propitiation for our sins. Beloved, if God so loved us, we also ought to love one another.

We love because he first loved us. If anyone says, “I love God,” and hates his brother, he is a liar; for he who does not love his brother whom he has seen cannot love God whom he has not seen. And this commandment we have from him: whoever loves God must also love his brother.
Devotional:
I have a confession. I have a love problem. My marriage counselor, pastor and mentor Pastor Michael Welchert coined this term. Sometimes, as he says, I think I have an anger problem. I get frustrated with clerks, other drivers, my family, you name it. If someone doesn’t do what I think is right, I get upset to varying degrees. I am not a person who regularly acts out these feelings, but there are indeed times when I am vulnerable and I let loose with choice phrases and use my gift with words to cause more harm than good.

But I do not have an anger problem. I have a love problem.

What is missing is not only self control, it is not only a lack of peace. It is a lack of love for the other person. It is failing to put them first, to seek first to understand and then to be understood (as his wife Diana, my personal mentor and team marriage counselor with Pastor Michael likes to remind me). I want to be put first. I want my sense of justice to be in the forefront. I want to bring up their fault, point out their sin, and make sure they pay.

It is so the opposite of the woman I hunger to be! As I read these scriptures, they are at once convicting and hope-filled. I know that if God commands me to be and do something, He also provides the way. He is not going to require something of me that He will not empower me to do. I want this to be most evident at home, with my people. I want my husband to know that I am on his side and see the best in him. I want my children to know that they don’t have to work to please me, but that though I will call them to accountability ultimately my love is constant and not dependent on their behavior—truly unconditional.

I pray that the love of God will permeate our hearts and homes today. I pray that we would have a fresh anointing to love those around us despite our feelings to the contrary. By the power of the Holy Spirit we can walk out the most important command of Jesus. Pray with me.

Prayer:
Father, today I confess that I need You. I need You to love through me. I recognize that I fail, and I need You to save me from my own failures and shortcomings. Let my heart be Yours. Cleanse any bitterness, selfishness and pride that are keeping me from letting Your love flow.

Intercession:
I lift up my child(ren) to You today. Let Your love be shed abroad in their hearts, and cause them to be healed in every place they hurt. Heal traumas. Heal wounds. Give them peace and joy.

(Take time to list needs and concerns for each individual).

I lift up Your name in this home and confess that You are King of my heart and of our family. Have Your way, and take Your throne.


In Jesus’ Name I pray, amen.

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